Valerie Schultz

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: Aging mother's plight painful for adult children

    By Valerie Schultz
    Friday, Sep 19 2014 11:40 AM

    My mother suffers from Parkinson's disease, which is having its merciless way with her. She uses a walker for stability, but she has fallen several times, always because she thought she'd just do this one little thing without her walker, only to lose her balance and land hard on the floor. After each incident, her nagging children have told her: Don't do anything without your walker! You don't want to break a hip! Then we'd watch her toddle off to do one little thing right under our noses.

    Parkinson's is characterized by a shuffling walk, and in my mother's case, it has robbed her of the ability to pivot on the ball of her foot, thus causing her to lose her bearings and tumble when she tries to turn. But no amount of our nagging seemed...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: Anniversaries are built on ups and downs

    Once again it is time for the annual anniversary column. The date seems to arrive a little more quickly each year. Will I ever get tired of thinking and writing about marriage? It's a fascinating topic. As both a legal institution and an...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: Daughter building life in Missouri college town

    My husband and I are fortunate that three of our four daughters live in lovely, salty, coastal areas of California. This means we get to visit beloved family members and go to the beach at the same time, which is my idea of the perfect...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: God gives each of us loaves and fishes

    The biblical story of the loaves and fishes appears in all four of the New Testament Gospels. Jesus, having captivated the imagination of thousands of followers with his teachings and healing powers, realizes that his listeners must be...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: When did ripped jeans become high fashion?

    Let me go on record as thanking God that my daughters outgrew their teenage desire to shop for new clothes at a certain pretentious mall chain store. You know the one I mean: When you walk by the store, the music is at the exact decibel...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: Middle child always 'the other one'

    Tuesday, Aug. 12, is Middle Child Day, and if you are a middle child, you understand perfectly why so little fanfare surrounds this event. To put it bluntly, we are used to being ignored. The middle child is often defined by what he or she...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: A marriage, like a tandem, is a ride built for two

    "Slow, or fast, or faster You lead, I'll follow after The path flies by As you and I Ride a bicycle built for two ..." -- "Daisy Bell," by Harry Dacre, 1892 "Tandem" is a very cool word. Its actual definition, as an adjective or...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: Don't tell God to 'hang on'

    One of the things that irritated me when I was the mother of teenage children was the phrase they often used when I called to them from another room. They knew that I was likely calling a particular name in order to get someone to do...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: Big news -- voters on the right don't like our president

    Big news on the right: President Obama is rapidly falling out of everyone's favor! He can't do anything right! Here's proof: A recent poll by Quinnipiac University indicates that a third of the survey respondents think that President Obama...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: Austerity was difficult -- and now I miss it

    Five years ago, the economic planets aligned in our universe, and not in a good way. The nationwide recession and resulting tightening of credit, combined with pay cuts in the form of state furlough days for my husband and me, as well as...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: Grief is dark shadow over these early summer weeks

    My sister calls it the trifecta, although without the happy connotation of that word: the window of time every year from Father's Day in June to our dad's birthday in July. In between is Independence Day, the date of our dad's death. The...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: Messages never get lost when you google God in prayer

    The Internet search engine Google has triumphed in its global invasion. It has stormed the beach and taken over the world. Google is so ubiquitous that the noun has become a verb: we routinely use Google to google something. The late Nora...

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    VALERIE SCHULTZ: Old books tell stories from another time

    Browsing a second-hand bookstore offers hours of pleasure to book lovers like me. Every city has its dusty corners of used books, places that act like a drug on us book addicts. Powell's City of Books in Portland, Oregon, for example, a...

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